Soooo Sorry!! I've been MIA for awhile! I live with my parents right now, and they are trying to cut down on the bills and cut my internet!! AHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!! I'm going crazy without my internet! I miss being able to check facebook whenever I want, and to check my bank account whenever I want. But you know what?! I'm BACK!!! lol
I went to court on 7/7 for child support regarding my youngest daughter Avary. Of course you know I show up with all my required documentation, because momma's not playin games. It takes a lot of money to raise a child, and I didn't knock myself up! He of course, shows up with the minimum that he can get away with. Didn't bring the breakdown of his insurance like he was supposed to, and what does the judge do? Grants him another two weeks to fax the information into the attorney. HOW IS THAT RIGHT!?!?! SERIOUSLY!?? I've been after this since LAST September, and they are still granting him extra time to get his sh*t together! I really just wanted to donkey punch him in his man business, but of course, that would result in me going to jail..which as a single mother..is unacceptable!! UGH!
Ladies...before you date a man, PLEASE run a background check on him. If I would have known this deadbeat idiot had 6 other kids before then I would have realized he was not someone that I wanted nor needed in my life. His arrears in child support would probably have shown up somewhere, and I would have realized he's a deadbeat..and FAKE! That guy that they ALLOW you to see while dating is NOT the real guy. They only let you see what they think you want to see..which is NONE of the important things. Thank GOD I didn't allow him around my oldest daughter. I really think he's trying to help overpopulate the world, and I did NOTHING to prevent that. I love my daughters, but I allowed this man to put a world of hurt on me and my daughter. I'm the one that will have to explain why her dad doesn't want anything to do with her. I'm the one that is raising her without ANY help from him, and lets not expect too much from the court ordered child support..you know, he gets credit for those other children that are older than her...so I am hoping for AT LEAST enough to cover the child care that I pay out for her.
Sorry, just had to vent there for a minute, and PLEASE..when you are drinking, do NOT do so with anyone you don't trust. When you are too drunk to realize what you are doing, do NOT trust them to be the smart one and protect you. They will not do it.
Peace out!
